R.I.P. Denis and thank you.

I've spent the past 3 days in the South Eastern wheat belt of WA attending the funeral of a man I was proud to call a friend, a new friend who I met about 4 years ago through members of our families marrying. Denis, a true hero of his small community, died suddenly of a massive heart attack, much too young at 58 (my age). Of the hundreds of people paying their last respects I happened to meet 2 special people, both who had lost a child to depression related suicide and both who are now working in the area of suicide prevention. I know I will be connecting with these wonderful brave people again soon, for united we are strong. The significance of the impact Denis was having by drawing people together in death as he had during his amazing life is not lost on me as I reflect this evening on events of the weekend. R.I.P. Denis and thank you.

A Red Centre Rider's story

Our Ride to the Red Centre meant different things to different people. One of our riders sent me the following message.  

 

Dear Steve,  

                   I have just returned to work from the ride, and would like to congratulate you, the other organisers  and the Lions Clubs on a job well done. This was a joy to participate in and a life changing experience.  

   

I have been a long term sufferer of depression, with times of such lows that I have been referred to help to prevent suicide, between the illness and alcohol I have made my families life hell, with little insight into the problems. To mix and speak with people on the ride made me realise that I was not alone and has forced me to look at my situation and get some long term treatment.  

   

I hope that there will be another ride next year.             Regards Michael 

 

Thank you Michael, hopefully your story will inspire others to take that first big step and reach out for help.

 


 


 


 


 

Rusty's Story

G'day Steve

my name is Rusty & today I found out about the Black Dog Ride to the Red Centre & I wish I'd heard about it sooner.

I would have liked to join in for an excellent cause.

I have been to the depths of the black pit of Depression myself & managed to shake the black dog off with the help of a loved one that didn't give up on me when she could see I really needed a shoulder.

I have just recently purchased another bike with the encouragement of me missus & I'm itching to go on my yearly solo ride like I used to.  
There is nothing like the feeling of the open road & meeting new people & sharing stories.

I remember a few years back after a long day in the saddle I stopped @ a park in Surfers Paradise on my way north.  As I pulled into a coastal car park & parked, I literally fell off me bike in the heat onto the grass & a bloke with his young child came over to me to see if I was ok.  I removed my helmet & with a smile I thanked him for his concern & we began to chat as his son admired my bike.  I told him my story about the recent passing of my Father & that I was heading North in his honour just because I could.

With this I noticed a slight tear in his eye & he opened up to tell me that he had just had a terrible break up with his wife & that today was the first time he'd seen his child in awhile.  We chatted for what seemed like ages about all sorts of stuff (I'd been through a divorce myself) while we watched his son play on the play equipment.  As the sun was about to go down, I had to move on to somewhere further up the road & he surprizingly gave me his phone number incase I needed a place to stay on the way back through town.

He thanked me for the chat & it lifted my spirits also.

Life is good eh. cheers mate & all the best with a great cause..

Rusty.

Steve Andrews on 6PR 24th August 2011

Steve Andrews, founder of Black Dog Ride, talks to Howard on 6PR from Port Augusta, during the 2011 Ride to the Red Centre. Catch more updates via the web: www.blackdogride.com.au twitter: @blackdogride or Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BlackDogRide

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